Porn Star Experience, AKA PSE Anyone?

porn star experience sydneyThere was a time when the ‘3Rs’ meant “reading, ‘riting and ‘rithmatic” but now could just as easily refer to “replicating real relationships”.

PSE is text-speak for ‘Porn Star Experience’ and what it is exactly, depends on whom it is you’re asking.

The uninitiated sometimes misconstrue it as just a BBJ (bareback blow job). Others would say it’s a GFE (girlfriend experience) which should never be confused with The Hobby. Many would assert that PSE and GFE are interchangeable terms, but many escorts and their providers have specific interpretations differentiating these two highly personalised services. The hard core of it is paying for playing pleasurable penetrative activities without the use of condoms.

The ultimate PSE is one that involves an actual porn star, and ensures expectations as high as its price.

Escorts unknown in the adult film industry who also offer the real deal of PSE can also charge high rates; the private privilege of an open ticket to their body for Russian, Greek, deep throat, facials, and swallowing is understandable. Given the chance to ask the Adult Industry Medical Health Care Foundation its definition of a PSE, the likely response would have been “… a 66% chance of herpes, a 12-28% chance of an STD and a 7% chance of being HIV Positive.”

Though both the PSE and GFE offer sex without condoms, the GFE is the promise of more affectionate sex; sex that includes some, or all acts of intimacy that would be consistent with the sharing of an emotional bond. Within that, is Full, and Light GFE.

Talking and playing, kissing and cuddling without urgency. More cock work than clockwork; and even dinner or a movie suggests the kind of things that generally define Full GFE. With the commercial sex industry already expanding the definition of sex work, it is envisioned that savvy prostitutes, pornographers and adult entertainment performers will further integrate technology into their business to provide extra girl friend experiences that include love letters, and birthday and anniversary gifts.

Any escort with stipulations, say a willingness for BBJs but no kissing, would be considered to offer a Light GFE service. One escort agency owner explains. “The separator between a PSE and a GFE is that for true PSEs, there will be no talking first, like a girlfriend would – it’s just straight into the sex part, and no use of condoms.”

“Balls to the wall, pure contact, anything goes – plain, pure fucking,” is how one proponent best expressed his experience of the service.

For others, the sense of having an ongoing and personal relationship with the sex worker ranked far above the animal passion of the porn star experience.

The more money, the less inhibition seems to be the prevailing description of the PSE option. In the not so straightforward, more complex GFE, there’s a more personal attraction and emotional satisfaction with the business transaction.

Whatever the desired experience – dating your girlfriend, or fucking a self-proclaimed or even professional porn star – having the cash and the fantasy is all a good escort needs to help you figure it all out.

Have you experienced porn star experience? Or have you performed it? Or do you have any ideas as to what else it might entail? Or whether it’s immoral, abusive, or just plain stupid? If you feel inclined, hump on our Facebook page & tell us what you think.