Should You Tell Your Girlfriend If You Had Sex With An Escort?

It’s a fact of life that in western societies being up to affording some sexual indulgence via an escort or by visiting a brothel or even by visiting an erotic massage clinic means that a lot of married men or single men with partners can indulge various aspects of their sexuality or libido for pure purposes of pleasure and perhaps a little bit of alternate companionship.

It’s also a sad fact of life that some women in long-term relationships do not want to regularly service their boyfriend’s or husband’s libido with daily sexual activity. Some poor men suffer months if not years without getting their John Thomas happily massaged to contentment. Even worse you might argue is when women refuse to provide emotional or spiritual companionship or guidance to their partners – they leave them out in the cold you might say – a lonely existence which can cause men to suffer depression or even to take their own lives.

Suicide amongst men in Australia is an epidemic and surely it would be better that such men quietly go and enjoy the pleasure of a paid companion who is there totally focused on them – providing them with a girlfriend experience they can savour – indeed it may be their only affectionate, loving and intimate connection with a woman for the entire year.

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Hence it is a strange phenomenon in our modern age that in large Australian cities such as Sydney, Melbourne, Brisbane, Perth and Adelaide brothels have sprung up like saplings after a storm. And indeed the main traffic on Sydney roads after 10p.m. at night is escorts being driven around going from apartment to house to hotel room night after night servicing lonely middle-aged men who need a little bit of sexy action or at the very least, affectionate masturbation of their neglected members.

But the question for our male customers of such services is this:

Should You Tell Your Girlfriend If You Had Sex With An Escort?

Is it ever wise to reveal to your partner how your lust is being satisfied or is it better to run your own private life sadly and solitary to avoid the risk of breaking up a marriage especially if there are children involved?

Of course clearly if you’re a man who likes to have unprotected sex then there is an ethical duty to be telling your life partner that you are engaging in this risky sex play because after all there is every likelihood you’re going to bring home a sexual disease.

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It would be positively evil of you to bring home a sexually transmitted infection as a Valentine’s gift for your partner or any other day of the year.

Having said that for responsible men who are bored out of their brains in marriages in which the mortgage and bringing up kids has cause a long-lost deficit in sparkle, spending time with an escort or visiting a brothel are reasonable antidotes to a life of demotivation, depression or outright marital misery.

Marital morbidity, however, will only be compounded if you have a moment of guilt which causes you to confess something which was merely a transitory experience perhaps wildly drunk or on drugs or simply struggling to overcome depression with a short one hour visit to a girl who can lift your spirits and help raise up your flagging manhood.

You only have one life. You only have the present tense. You may have felt horny. You may have a high libido which is not being met or appreciated by your long-term partner.

In such a circumstance it behoves you to shut the fuck up when it comes to regaling your partner about a misspent night on the tiles, night off the rails, or night with a condom dutifully worn, exploring the sexual smorgasbord that Sydney or other cities in Australia present to you for a relatively affordable fee.

You may enjoy a random blowjob, a testicle massage, getting to lick an anonymous pussy, or the dark passage of an anal fantasy which your dearly beloved has no interest in satiating.

For some men bondage and discipline is the flavoursome meal they’re not getting at home – for others it’s a porn star experience, and for others it may be an act of voyeurism, for example sharing a porn scene on your mobile phone with a prostitute when your wife is a Catholic, Muslim, Hindu, Buddhist or world-weary woman of the convent in the making.

The saying loose lips sink ships may be very appropriate if your wife has had many children and has loose lips, whereas your particular craving is for a nice tight pussy just to try something different, delectable, dynamic, and maybe deserving if you are an executive with a high stress job feeling angry with your destiny and hoping to escape through the sexual realm, the monotony of your boring regular city life. If it’s boring but overpaid, then lucky you, you’re probably already exploring the city’s night delights – but yeah, don’t tell the missus about any of it.

Silence is golden my friend not just golden in the shower sense but golden in the way you might aspire to glories which are no longer available in the marital bed but only in some far flung regions of industrial areas which happen to have a brothel as the main nocturnal point of visitation.

Life is less than ideal. a bit sad you might say, and for sensualists a little sexual escapade wipes away the memories of an overbearing boss, a downturn in business, or an impending job loss. Sad as it is to say that you cannot confide in your life partner, this is the real fact for most men. So overall the recommendation is, if you have sex with an escort, don’t tell the wife or girlfriend about it.